Aug
28
The ex’s girlfriend is giving my kids a complex?
Filed Under (Parenting) by Kert
Hope asked:

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I have 3 small children 2, 4, and 6. I have custody and am supporting my children without any help from their father. His girlfriend is really starting to **** me off. My son has a school dress code….NO BAGGY PANTS. So I went out and bought him pants that fit, and they look nice. But she didn’t like them so she told him they were too small and bought him pants that are too big like 2 sizes. Then my little girl picked out the cutest V-Day outfit longer shirt with stocking like pants. She came home from visiting them over the weekend in tears because she was told that her pants were too short. They are suppose to be that is the style of the pants. Then I sent her clothes to wear to daycare (which aren’t the best because they get ruined) but she had on a cute pink sweatshirt and a pair of mint green pants. she wouldn’t let her wear them to daycare because she said they didn’t match. She has one daughter who has the best of everything. And she seems to have some weird thing with clothes. Am I getting bent out of shape over nothing? I **** seeing my kids so worried about what they are wearing. The are little kids who now have a complex issue with clothes. I feel so bad when they come home. Finally I sent her a text telling her to keep her comments to herself because it was hurting the kids. She’s an adult….I really wanted to tell her that if she has a problem with their clothes to get that no good ex of mine to get a job and help support his children. What do I do. My ex just thinks I over react but the kids are upset and shouldn’t they be worried about mud pies and boy cooties. And please tell me why does my 2 year old come home with so much gel in his hair his sculp is white?????
my ex and her are having another child. She is basically supporting him. Without her my children probably wouldn’t even eat when they got there. So I am trying very hard to be the bigger person but when you mess with my 3 babies oh it on. I can’t just not let them go see their dad because his girlfriend is a clothes ****. I need to handle this in a mature fashion. I really wish I had the time to tell the whole story. I just feel like my kids aren’t happy. I think I am going to contact my lawyer and see what I can do.

CURT
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